These pointers will work in any plastic surgeon’s office. Remember:
- Don’t be afraid. It’s just an interview. You’re not obliged to have anything done. You’re just gathering information. Have fun. Talk plain.
- You are the boss. You are hiring the plastic surgeon. He is the employee, and you are the employer. Don’t be intimidated by him.
- Don’t go to your consultation with a pre-conceived notion of the operation that you want or need. Many people see a new, sometimes trendy operation on television, and then visit a plastic surgeon to ask for that exact operation. It is more in your best interest to show the plastic surgeon what it is that you are dissatisfied with, and let him discuss the operations that can address your concerns.
Tasks to accomplish:
- Get all the information you can about the operation(s) that you are considering. What will be done? What will be improved? What cannot be improved? How much change can he make? Will it be worth it? What are the risks? How long before you can be back in public? What kind of anesthesia will be used? Where will the operation be performed? What will it cost? What are your alternatives?
- If the doctor will not patiently and completely answer all of your questions, simply cross him off your list. You are not doing this for his convenience. You are the one paying the fees. You are the one taking the risks. It is the surgeon’s responsibility to make sure that you have all the information you need to make a good decision.
Find out how good the surgeon is. You’re there in his office. This is your chance to find out, and it’s the most important information you will use in selecting your surgeon. You determine how good the surgeon is by looking at before and after pictures of his own patients. If you have a big nose, ask to see patients who had big noses made smaller. If you are a candidate for a face lift, ask to see pictures of face lift patients that he operated on. We’ll discuss the before and after pictures in more detail below.
- If you’re very interested but still nervous, ask to talk to some of the doctor’s patients who have had the operation you are considering. It’s a reasonable request, and your doctor can arrange for you to speak with someone.
Why do you need to see before and after pictures?
Would you hire an artist to paint your portrait without first seeing any examples of his work? I don’t think so!
Plastic surgeons are like hairdressers or car mechanics or accountants — some are exceptional at what they do, and others are inexcusably bad. Pictures will tell you which is which. When a plastic surgeon gives a presentation to other doctors at a scientific meeting, he uses before and after pictures of his patients to prove to his colleagues that his surgical techniques really work in his hands. You are entitled to the same proof about your surgeon’s skill. You need to see that the doctor has been able to accomplish for someone else what you want for yourself.
What if the doctor won’t show you before and after pictures of patients on whom he has operated? Well, in our humble opinion, you just need to go look elsewhere for your plastic surgeon. Any good plastic surgeon can get permission from some of his patients to show their pictures, and if you don’t see any pictures before surgery, you have no idea how good the doctor is.